Grace acknowledges the full implication of sin & yet does not condemn.
The opposite of Grace is not law, but the absence of Grace.
When one is fixated on victory, it leads him to graVe.
When one is fixated on Christ, it leads him to graCe.

There are wrong/hurtful things done from me & to me. Don't ever condemn them and/or myself.
Yes, it hurts. Still hurting....
But I choose to let God be God.